In the name of Allah and praise to Allah and peace and blessings be upon our Master the messenger of Allah and his family and companions and those who follow them.
Women are better than men or men are better than women? An issue that always concern men and women when they get together. The women will say we are the best and men would say we are the best. And this issue cannot be looked this way.
Allah say in Quran ‘ Oh people! Becareful of your Lord, Who created you from a single being and created its mate of the same (kind) and spread from these two, many men and women’
Allah the Almighty created us from a single being and made a men in a kind and women from another kind. And have made the difference with both through closseness to him the Almighty. Women have their duties and men have theirs. If woman accomplished 70% of her duties, and the man 50% of his duties then the woman is better, and vice versa. Its like the old and the rich bot of them got responsibilities. Also there is a very delicate meaning scholars always mention to remind people because many haven’t heard it. Allah the Almighty created Eve from Adam without a mother. Have created the female from the male without a mother. To establish justice in the world Allah the Almighty has created Jesus from a woman without a father. The man came from the woman without a father existing. So that there will be equilibrium. Allah says ‘Surely the likeness of Jesus is with Allah as the likeness of Adam; He created him from dust, then said to him, Be, and he was’.
So the issue here is not based on differentiation or accomplishments, it is based on our state with the Almighty. We don’t want to keep ourselves busy with this issue, we want to keep ourselves busy with the mission that Allah the Almighty ordered us to do. No need for a woman to be upset nor the man and each to elevate their level by saying, I am better, responsibilities belong to me, the power, the work and provision. And the woman would say, I take care of kids, the house, the service and so much burden to carry.
But we say, whoever is better with Allah, then he or she will better in this world and better in the hereafter, and with Allah the Almighty better.
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